So close, yet so far away
But if it’s only distance that’s separating us, then why not move closer? Simple question; not so simple answer.
J is in school and doesn’t live nearby. I have a thriving career and don’t live anywhere near J.
But, what would happen if the distance (and school and/or career) is a moot point? Does distance really make the heart grow fonder? And, when that distance is capped, will you feel differently? Can you even begin to dislike the other person?
I’ve seen relationships break and fall apart when two people moved in together. What was first a little quirk later became a huge annoyance. J and I know how we feel for the other person. We’re practically seconds away from registering at Crate and Barrel.
I doubt we’d get on each other’s bad sides. Still, it makes me wonder if the whole ‘sleeping with one leg out of the covers’ thing will piss me off when there aren’t any covers on the bed.
I guess only time (and distance) will tell.